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Messes and Mistakes


My 4-year-old son, Luke, doesn’t like making messes, and he doesn’t like making mistakes. 

He can cry in an instant when he spills some juice on his shirt or drops a piece of fruit on the ground.  (It’s been like this since he was about two years old.)

Because of the work I do, I can see how his contraction and emotional response to messes and mistakes could be an issue for him later in life.

Especially because Life is FILLED with Messes and Mistakes.

So whenever he or I mess, I just keep it light and say, “Hey, we made a mess. Life is full of messiness, and now we clean it up. Simple.”

I keep doing this every time to take the Emotional Charge out of it for him.

Yesterday, he spilt some almond milk on the table while pouring it into his porridge bowl and instead of freaking out, he said, “Hey Mom, I made a mess,” quite matter of factly.

I had a HUGE internal celebration moment ️🎊️🎉💃  and said out loud in a light, bright voice:
“Cool bananas, that’s why we have serviettes, because all messes can always be cleaned up.”

And so, if you, too, hate messes and mistakes and they make you feel yuck…

… Can you change your inner self-talk as if you were talking to a 4-year-old who is sensitive about messes and mistakes?

… Can you, with some compassionate self-talk, help to normalize the mistake in the moment and let the inner child inside you know that life is full of messes and mistakes?

Try it…

Yours in the Midst of the Messiness of Life

P.S. Serendipity!

P.P.S.  One of the areas of life where people become paralyzed and frozen because of the fear of making a Mistake is with Money, Finances and Investing.    

Money Mistakes are more triggering than other types of mistakes.

You’re so afraid of making a mess or making a wrong or bad decision that you make no decision at all.   You become stuck in a spiral of procrastination and inaction around your finances.

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